Sexual relationships are an important part of every adult's life. And if he completely or partially lacks sexual desire, while he is not satisfied with the quality of sexual relations, then it is quite possible that he is frigid. Answering the question of what frigidity is, it should be noted that both women and men can suffer from sexual coldness or frigidity. However, the sexual coldness of the stronger sex should not be confused with impotence.
What is frigidity in men
Under the condition of acquired sexual coldness, the cause of this disorder is most often chronic stress, accompanied by mental overload and negative emotions. The presence of negative experiences with the opposite sex, failures associated with building long-term relationships with women can also have an impact.
Modern men are often subject to very stringent professional requirements, in some families a man experiences real pressure from his wife and relatives in the material aspect. Not surprisingly, the result of a negative environment at work and at home isdisorders in the functioning of the nervous system, neuroses and chronic fatigue syndrome.
In addition, as a result of emancipation, women try to gain control over any situations, which causes an internal conflict between a man and patriarchal attitudes, which, without getting an external outlet, goes to the somatic level, and then a man subconsciously avoids independent and powerful women. In special cases, male frigidity can develop into gynecophobia (fear of women).
Unlike unmarried men, frigidity becomes a real problem for a married man, as it causes a painful reaction from his wife, which only worsens his condition.
You should clearly understand what frigidity is and know its symptoms. The first "swallow" can be considered a frequently occurring situational impotence, which disappears with erotic stimulation. However, the feeling of satisfaction after sexual intimacy will gradually decrease, and with it the brightness of emotional and orgastic sensations.
As a result, frigidity leads to sexual disharmony in a couple, and in this case it is wiser to seek help from a specialist (sexologist, andrologist, psychotherapist). In addition to the correction of dysgamia, a course of general strengthening therapy is prescribed, aimed at normalizing sexual function.
What is frigidity in women
Often, a frigid lady may have no sexual desire at all. She practically does not experience sexual arousal and orgasm. In severe casesa frigid woman may experience pain during intimacy.
The causes of sexual coldness can be mental shocks (family conflicts, rape, drug problems, childhood negative memories). In addition, frigidity can develop in a woman due to past inflammatory and infectious diseases of the small pelvis.
Interestingly, in Hinduism, female asexuality is considered a physiological norm, not a problem, and even more so not a disease or “underdevelopment” with various impairments to body functions. After all, she is able to conceive and give birth to children. The cause of frigidity is considered to be the redistribution of fertile energy in the body of a woman.
Based on the "Western" view of this issue, we can conclude that female frigidity is still a sexual disorder that should be treated. However, do not jump to conclusions about the presence of the disease. Often the reason for the lack of sexual arousal and orgasmic sensations can be the inexperience of the sexual partner, or his unwillingness to pay attention to the woman in achieving satisfaction from intimacy. In such cases, partners must be honest with each other in order to avoid complications in the relationship and their termination.
If it was not possible to solve the problem together, then you should consult with specialists. The doctor, as a rule, suggests taking a test for frigidity, most often more than one, according to the results of which it is possible to judge whether there is a hidden repressed attraction toto their gender, which was formed in childhood or adolescence and interferes with intimate full-fledged intimate relationships with men. Then you need to undergo a gynecological examination. Based on the current picture, the doctor will prescribe treatment.
